Re: Death can be our friend
Enkin et al make a passionate plea for embracing the inevitable death as our friend . Perhaps, we should start by accepting death in those who have already died.
Cardiopulmonary resuscitation (CPR) is now extensively used in Hospital setting. The oncologists are not obliged to talk about futile surgery, futile radiotherapy or even phase one trials of chemotherapy with dying cancer patients. But oncologists and even Hospice clinicians are obliged to document a 'Do Not Resuscitate' (DNR) decision for cancer patients.
The TV dramas have raised the expectations of general public regarding the outcome of a CPR. Quite often patients and family are distressed by this ‘DNR’ discussion/decision and some feel an effective treatment is being withdrawn. 
Unfortunately, the national guidelines endorsed by BMA do advocate ‘Advance care planning’ for cancer patients while at the same time stating that ' it is not necessary or appropriate to initiate discussion with the patient to explore their wishes regarding CPR' if CPR will not be successful . Moreover in practice, most hospital guidelines do advocate CPR discussion with patient and family.
All prescriptions in an oncology ward are not done by default; it is done by active prescription. Perhaps we should start by positively documenting and prescribing ‘PRN’ CPR for the minority who is ‘for CPR’ in an oncology ward and spare the majority from the ‘Presumption in favour of CPR when there is no DNAR decision’ as advocated by the guidelines. 
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Competing interests: No competing interests