Connor Edward Morris
BMJ 2015; 351 doi: https://doi.org/10.1136/bmj.h4619 (Published 03 September 2015) Cite this as: BMJ 2015;351:h4619- Derek Summerfield
Like his father, Charles, who lectured for many years at the Royal College of Surgeons, Connor Edward Morris (“Ed”) was a Barts man. He went from house jobs on to the GP rotational scheme at the Royal Free Hospital and got his MRCGP. In 1984 he moved to Witney, Oxfordshire, to take up a post at the Nuffield Health Centre, where he remained for the rest of his career, latterly as senior partner. Ed’s reputation was as a committed and compassionate doctor. During his memorial service in St Mary’s Church, Witney, conducted by the Bishop of Reading, former patients or their family members stood up spontaneously across the church to testify to the quality of attention and care he had afforded them across three decades.
Trying to summarise Ed’s contribution over these 30 years puts me in mind of John Berger’s classic 1960s study of a west country GP, The Fortunate Man. Berger asked what was the social value of a pain eased, or of the witness that a GP offered families and individuals across time, across life events. He concluded that society did not know how to take the measure of the contribution of ordinary working doctor, that his value was ultimately unassessable.
So, too, the value not only of a good doctor, but of a good man. It may be that a good man is also ultimately unassessable. Perhaps the best distillation of Ed came from one of Ed’s practice partners, who described him as “moral and rebellious.” Ed was a Quaker but never really mentioned it. He didn’t need to, because he so embodied the Quaker traditions of tolerance and philanthropy in his everyday life, and the understanding that faith is nothing if not accompanied by deeds. He was involved in all sorts of charitable and humanistic projects, local and international, from the Woodland Trust to Palestinian human rights. At the time of his death he was the local distributor of Palestinian olive oil, an example of his practical approach to solidarity. He was not above sneaking into Waitrose and putting “Buy Palestinian” stickers on Israeli produce.
Ed was also a sporting man: he played league squash past 60, was my irreplaceable cycling companion on many “Mad Dogs and Englishmen” style trips in Mediterranean countries, and he trained as a microlight pilot. It was while flying his microlight that he died in an accident at Enstone airport, Oxfordshire, on 3 July.
He leaves a family to whom he was wholly committed: his wife, Lesley; daughters Katy and Mathilda; and three grandchildren.
Where do we start with Ed Morris? We are all carrying a set of felt associations with him, which are at once as fresh as a daisy but also suddenly of another world. It’s hard to capture or summarise someone’s presence and movement in the world, isn’t it? We are all not just the sum of our parts. Each of us carries our own version of Ed.
A few quotes
Lesley: “Patient and funny . . . the ability to defuse tense moments by doing something funny.”
John Osman: “A cracking chap . . . always supportive of Lesley and Virginia,” “intellectually challenging,” and “It wouldn’t have surprised me if he’d been a conscientious objector.”
Old friend Derek Bergel: “A good man in the literal sense.”
From a former GP partner, who I am sure is here: “A moral and rebellious man,” which gets my vote as a clinical distillation.
I’ve known Ed and Lesley since Ed and I were house physicians at Addenbrooke’s Hospital in Cambridge in 1978. Many of my experiences of him were framed by 14 annual cycle trips around the Mediterranean—he was the perfect cycling companion, as happy to be unwashed as I was, twins separated at birth. There was always a bit of “mad dogs and Englishmen” in toiling up a hill at midday in boiling heat; Ed as ever, calm and unflappable, while I ranted at the road engineers about the gradient.
The last note he sent me, a few weeks ago, accompanied a book that Tilly, I think, had found in an Oxfam shop, written by three men who cycled 19 000 miles around the world in 1898. This is what Ed wrote: “Some of their experiences I would not wish to emulate, but it is nice to know how handy a tyre inflator can be when set upon by a mob.” This captures Ed’s voice and tone, his delight at the uplift of whimsy, and at adept turns of phrase . . . Our evenings in olive groves or orchards or in classical era ruins were, over wine and cigarettes, great times of talk.
One thing that always came over was Ed’s tenderness about Lesley, and how deeply loved and rooted in him were the lives of Katy, Tilly, Lily, Tom, and Hamish. I remember the beautifully pitched and eloquent tenderness in his speech at Katy’s wedding and, for some reason, have remembered the way he addressed Ross as his new son in law in that speech. And evident in this same family right now, at this crisis of loss, is a power and coherence that is an advert for what family can be, why we have them.
But what we do have is some essence of Ed, and his human traces that will trail on in our lives, and those of many others not here. This is his gift to us and what we have.
Notes
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Footnotes
General practitioner (b 1952; q London 1977; MRCGP), died in a microlight flying accident on 3 July 2015.