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Helping your son to die

BMJ 2001; 322 doi: https://doi.org/10.1136/sbmj.0106203 (Published 01 June 2001) Cite this as: BMJ 2001;322:0106203
  1. Kiran Somani, intercalated medical student1
  1. 1University of Westminster

Kiran Somani talks to Heather Pratten about her ill son's final wishes

Heather Pratten's son Nigel had a severe form of Huntington's disease. Her first husband also suffered from the disease for many years until his death. As Nigel's condition grew worse he lost his independence and with it his ability to enjoy the things that many of us take for granted. Last year, after struggling to come to terms with his illness, he decided that he couldn't go on. Nigel, who was 42, wanted to die and asked his mother to help him.

Not only did Heather Pratten have to deal with her son's death when he killed himself, she also had to deal with having helped him. She was on trial both personally and legally. I spoke to her hoping to understand her feelings about what happened.

Nigel was an artist who “always had a pencil in his hand.” Mrs Pratten recollected that he used to draw his own greetings cards. As his condition grew worse he was no longer able to draw, and when he started buying cards his family became certain that something was wrong.

Nigel became “uncomfortable around people”

Mrs Pratten described how Nigel began to choke every time he ate, how his legs had begun to give way, his back …

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