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Sharing control in death: the role of an "amicus mortis"
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EDITOR
May I offer one further ingredient to a good death as discussed
by Smith in his editorial1
having an "amicus mortis," a friend at death. Most items on his list of principles use the word
control or imply it, yet the very process of death entails losing
control. Control of strong drugs is especially difficult for the one
who is dying. An amicus mortis makes it easy. I wrote the following
within days of my wife's death from cancer four years ago, and it was
read at her funeral.
"Towards the end I was given the privilege of care. I don't want to belittle the role of the care team. None the less, I was the lucky one in charge, especially at night, and my task was an easy one, aided by small doses of morphine towards the end.
"She had no pain, no distress, no loss of
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